“I’m sad and miserable and no one wants to be around a miserable person”
Is what I told myself
After letting my mind and body deal with some unpleasant events in my life, I was still suffering longer than was necessary.
During this time, I learned something I’ve never forgotten.
I control my thoughts.
My thoughts dictate my emotions.
My emotions create my habits.
My habits form my life.
What I think to myself EVERYDAY will control the happiness in my life.
The only thing I wanted at that time was to stop feeling bad.
So I cut out the things in my life that made me feel negatively.
-Cut down on going out and drinking alcohol
-Hanging out with friends who lived the lifestyle I was trying to escape
-Watching sports, Netflix, and TV.
-Beginning everyday by priming.
-Learning incessantly about things that I was faintly interested in.
-Paying close attention to what I said to myself.
-Providing value to people through things I loved.
Doing these things everyday changed how I talked to myself.
“I’m loved and blessed. I can learn any skill I want. What kind of life do I want to create?”
My decisions from that day until now created the life around me now.
I decided to buy a flight ticket to Vietnam and travel around south east Asia .
I learned that I loved photography.
I learned how to take photos.
I learned how to create value for brands doing something I loved.
Now, I’m a world traveler, doing the things that I love.
traveling the world
and making money whilst traveling even in my sleep.
– prime everyday.
-cut down on alcohol
-pay close attention to my self-talk
I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life.
In two years, I went from being unhappy.
– traveling to 10 new countries,
-finding my passion in life
-and creating value for people doing something I love.
If your life happiness where it should be, start by asking yourself:
“What do I say to myself everyday?”
If you’re curious about how I prime every morning. Here are some more blog posts below:
-how I changed my mindset to become growth focused,
-how I learned affiliate marketing (and now anything I want in less than a month),
-how I’ve been able to leverage that skill to get to where I am now (bartering for things and making money)